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How to get your crush without shooting your shot

There are two sides to attraction.

But when it comes to being the first to act on such attraction, the ladies typically hesitate.

No matter how great the attraction is, it’s common for girls to rarely take a shot when they see guys they really like.

Take the shot.
While it’s usually recommended that women take the initiative and pursue the men they like, we also recognize that some women are shy, uneasy, afraid of rejection, or just plain traditional and would prefer not to do this.

There are some ladies who would prefer not to take your shot because they are either shy, uneasy, or so terrified of rejection. (Source: Creative Kenya)

There are some ladies who would prefer not to take your shot because they are either shy, uneasy, or so terrified of rejection. (Source: Creative Kenya)

Grab the bae
Women that fit this description still have a chance to get the guy without having to approach him directly.

The solution is as simple as location. Be a little more subdued about it rather than shooting your shot straight at him. Make friends with him and have lighthearted and meaningful chats with him.

“Get him to chat about a subject he enjoys. According to Kelly Thore of Cosmopolitan, “When a guy talks about something he’s truly like, he’ll get pumped and unconsciously correlate those feel-good emotions with you.

When communication is constant and regular, you likely get to hear their secrets, and also exchange information on stuff that makes you both happy. There’re something about communicating with someone every time that makes the heart grow fond of them and foster some deep connection.

He’ll ask you out in no time if you can somehow improve communication to the point where you two do it every time and quietly drop date hints and sneaky love innuendos here and there.

It might or might not be as effective as directly addressing him. However, the key here is to subtly entice your crush to approach you and to give the impression that he started the connection when, in reality, it was your idea all along.

At the end of the day, just get your man without asking. He’ll believe he asked, but you’ll know he was only caught up in your clever operation snatch-the-bae plan.

Effective like dark magic and cunning like a pocket robber.

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